A short read – well worth the 2-3 minutes of time taken to read it. Includes this assertion:
“And in many day-to-day ways, we as parents place our children’s happiness above their caring about others. We are too quick to let our kids write off friends they find annoying. We fail to insist that they return phone calls from friends, or give credit to other children for their achievements, or reach out to friendless children at the playground. Or we fail to interrupt our children when they talk too much when they’re around other kids or adults.”
http://www.gse.harvard.edu/blog/news_features_releases/2009/03/the-parents-we-mean-to-be.html